What to say (and not to say) in your Christian wedding vows

When you’re writing your wedding vows, it’s important to remember that you’re not just promising to love and cherish your spouse – you’re also making a commitment to God. With that in mind, here are a few things to keep in mind when you’re writing your vows:

Do:

1. Talk about your love for God.

In your vows, make it clear that your love for your spouse is rooted in your love for God. This will be a beautiful testimony of your faith, and it will also remind you both that your relationship is ultimately about glorifying God.

2. Talk about your desire to serve God together.

One of the best things about marriage is that it gives you the opportunity to serve God together. In your vows, express your desire to serve God as a team and to make Him the center of your marriage.

3. Talk about your commitment to each other.

Of course, your vows should also express your love and commitment to your spouse. Talk about the things you love about them, and let them know that you’re committed to spending the rest of your life with them.

Don’t:

1. Don’t make any promises you can’t keep.

In your vows, only make promises that you know you can keep. This is a vow to God as well as to your spouse, so don’t make any promises that you’re not sure you can keep.

2. Don’t try to be funny.

Your wedding vows are not the time to crack jokes. This is a serious moment, so take it seriously.

3. Don’t use cliches.

Your vows should be unique to you and your relationship. Avoid using cliches or anything that sounds like it could have been copied from a book.

4. Don’t make your vows too long.

Keep your vows short and sweet. No one wants to listen to a long, drawn-out speech on your wedding day.

5. Don’t forget to practice.

Before your big day, make sure you practice your vows so you know them by heart. This will help you feel more confident and prevent any awkward moments on your wedding day.